Author: Shouldnt-havedunthat

New Year’s resolution to say yes more often. [MF]

Over the transition from 2022 to 2023, I made the goal that I would be more adventurous this year. I didn’t want to be as negative and say yes to most things instead of my typical no. Unless there was a real reason I shouldn’t I would agree to most things. Social events, trips or holidays, catch ups, guys…

After my holiday back home with my sister, my first real opportunity to test my new commitment came soon after. I was at a mobile coffee van by the beach getting my caffeine fix having just dropped my girls at school. On a table and chair next to me was a middle aged guy, late 30’s or early 40’s, light brown hair with a touch of stubble. He had a nice smile and tried for a bit of small talk when I smiled back. It was the normal sort of chitchat you get as a woman but I didn’t brush him off and stayed engaged in his conversation. I had to head off soon afterwards for work which he didn’t so he asked me for my number and if I wanted to see each other again and get to know one another. He was about 60% my type but I said sure and gave him my mobile and told him that I would be free Thursday. Read more »

What happens when you (33f) unblock your besties ex. [MF]

It’s been a while since I posted an update. I’ve been having a pretty awesome last couple of months. I went back home to The Philippines for almost the entire month of January. I went on holiday with my sister and saw my family. Sis and I went to Palawan and El Nido before heading to Cebu for a while. It was the longest I’ve ever been without the kids so it felt very freeing.

While overseas I was posting pics of my travels and made a few little reels for Insta. While using it I decided to unblock the guy from my first story. My closest girlfriend’s ex. A few days later he messaged me and I enjoyed chatting with him for the rest of my time away. No flirting or anything but just where I was going and things like that. I don’t think I’ve said his name before but I’ll call him Miguel from now on. It’s similar to his real name but not it. Read more »

[MF] I’d been good for so long (32f)

Life after my break up has been pretty quiet. I haven’t really had anything to talk about so have stayed off reddit pretty much. I’m enjoying living on my own with my kids. My youngest daughter stays with her father on alternating weekends and my eldest will often stay with friends so I get a night or two to myself every now and again. My ex and I are still separated with no change in status there. I did give him a one off BJ in a moment of weakness but that was weeks ago.

This past weekend I did go out to a house party at one of my girl friends’ houses. I was staying the night so could have a few more drinks than normal. I was having a lot of funny with my girls but was keeping an eye on a very cute guy that had come with someone else. Tall, dark hair, well build. Just my type. We eventually got introduced and for the next couple of hours went from complete strangers to some quite strong flirting very quickly. Read more »

[MF] Told my bf I cheated (32f)

So after going behind my bf’s back not once but twice, I made the resolution to tell him what I’d done. I organised for my kids to stay at friends place over the weekend just in case it went as horrible as I was dreading. After dropping them off I chickened out of going home for two hours and went to the gym instead. I did nearly an hour on the treadmill before working up the courage to go home.

I don’t think my bf had noticed I hadn’t come home right away as he didn’t say anything. I told him I needed to talk to him about something but he kind of ignored me and just focused in on what he was doing. I went away for a bit and came back again later but he still didn’t want to talk. It happened a couple more times and I got annoyed as I really wanted to get this out. Read more »

[MF] Oops. A second time (32f)

I’ve re-written this a couple of times as I don’t know how to put it. People have been asking for a description of myself too. I’m taller for a Filipina but not as tall as most women. I’m more slim and lean but have some decent curves. I’ve put in the work to keep my butt tight. Gravity and 2 kids have done their job to my tits though. They’re a good size just not as perky as they were 5 years ago. I have quite long dark nipples too. I’m tanned with long dark hair to my lower back that’s highlighted blonde. I did a make up artistry course so look sexy done up right. Onto my update.

So I thought I was in the clear with the guy I cheated with. I hadn’t heard from him since but then on Wednesday he sent me a message through Insta asking if we could talk about what happened. My stomach kind of dropped and had a little bit of a freak out. I replied saying that’s was cool however and I arranged to go over to his place the next day. Yes I know what you are all thinking. Read more »

[MF] Still take care of my boyfriend (32f)

This is sort of a follow up to other confession where I cheated on my bf for the first time. It can hopeful give a bit of an insight into what our relationship is like and how he is.

It happened Sunday morning. My guy came into my room around 5:30 am for a bit of a cuddle in bed. We spooned for a while and he felt me up and he started to get turned on. I hadn’t really woken up properly yet but he wanted me to give him a blow job.

I agree and drop down below the covers and get his boxers off. He’s already quite hard so go to work with some kisses and sucking before wrapping my mouth around it. I bob my mouth on him as he gets into it more fully and moves my head around as he likes. I suck him for a handful of minutes before he cums in my mouth and I swallow it.

After that he was pretty much done with me. We cuddled for a bit longer and then the kids woke up. He didn’t repay the favour at all.

[MF] I’ve never been unfaithful before (32f)

Never in my life thought that I would be unfaithful as a girlfriend. I was raised Catholic in The Philippines but moved to Australia 10 years ago to be with a guy. It didn’t work out and we split and I’ve since been with my boyfriend for 8 years but he hasn’t looked like putting a ring on me anytime soon. I have 2 daughters, one with my current partner. He’s become more and more distant with me these last couple of years. Long hours at work, not much time for me.

I’m rambling as this just happened tonight. I went out with some girlfriends to a club and ran into a friend of mine. He was the boyfriend of another girlfriend of mine but they split up. I was a bit drunker than I should be and my friends wanted to leave. I wanted to stay a bit longer and my friends ex offered to give me a lift home so they could leave early. Read more »