I [M] 37 have a secret life that no one else knows about

My wife and I were married young(ish) – I was 25, she was 23. I love her to bits – she really is perfect in every way, except our sex life hasn’t always been great. Enough to produce a couple of kids, and still it’s not been awful. But not enough to stop me straying from time to time.

I’m the first person to admit that I’m a twat for this, so there isn’t really a need to point it out (though many of you will, because there are more than enough cheat-haters around). But I find the whole cheating kink irresistible. I love cheating stories. I love cheating girlfriends and wives. I’d give cheating boyfriends and husbands a high five – if I ever met any in real life. It doesn’t tend to happen though, at least not in my social circles. If there’s cheating going on, it’s a very well kept secret.