Any time my husband and I take a road trip, the conversation always turns to sex. Once the kids fall asleep in the backseat, we talk about our sexual desires, likes, experiments we’d like to try, or will read stories to each other from Reddit. On our most recent trip, after doing all of the above, I came up with the idea of having a “sex jar”. In this jar, we would write down different sexual acts or turn-ons and periodically draw from the jar. Whatever the jar says, goes. Well, it’s been over a month and I still haven’t moved the list from my phone to papers in a jar… That’s what brings us to what happened a few days ago.