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To cut a long story short, my fiancé and I have had a rocky sexual-side to our relationship ever since we first met. Personally, I have an extremely high sex drive and would happily have sex with her more than a few times per day. From her perspective, once a week/fortnight is fine. Which has caused real turmoil in our relationship in the past.
I also have a few trust issues due to past relationships so this lead to me thinking she was cheating/not attracted to me. I had voiced my concerns and she stated that for some reason she just has a low sex drive and she 100% is still attracted to me and loves me with all her heart. She seemed to think it was due to her contraceptive pill, so she switched.
Since the switch, things have been largely different in the bedroom. We have introduced vibrators, dildos, clitoral stim, anal play, restraints, you name it. But again, the frequency that we have sex was exactly the same, maybe twice a month.