I married young and sexually inexperienced. I stayed married to a woman for 15 years who grew increasingly distant emotionally and sexually. The last several years were a dead bedroom, leaving me a lot of time to contemplate what I had missed out on experiencing in my late teens and 20s.
We eventually ended things. I was torn between feeling bad that I couldn’t make it work, and being exited to go out and have new experiences.
There were a few phases along this path where I was definitely feeling bicurious. In the past I knew a few people could sense it too. At one point, a couple – who were acquaintances – put feelers out while I was still married. I turned them down thinking things would change at home. By the time I was divorced, they had moved out of state.
So two years ago, I started posting in a few r4r’s here. I wanted to find a bi-couple who we’re really into each other but also loved to share each other.