So for those who asked, this is the story of the first time I used my hall pass. Here’s the story of my wife’s first use- she actually got to use hers before I did. This was really early in our opening our relationship.
So as some of you might remember, I’m a college professor. In my discipline it’s expected that you go to one or two professional conferences every year. My wife and I thought that this would be my best bet- after all, it’s where she got fucked by someone else the first time.
And her getting fucked was one of the best things that happened to us. If our sex life was good before, it was turbocharged now. She started to embrace her sluttiness- she had plenty of experiences in high school and college- but there was always that little bit of guilt and shame that was part of it. The fact that I allowed her to let that part of her come out, and encouraged it, was a huge step for her. It started becoming a pretty regular part of our talk during sex: