So a couple months ago I was talking to this guy on Tinder who was in his late 30s, and kept asking me about what I playfully call “daddy issues”, aka liking older men, liking calling them Daddy, etc. Anyway, one day he starts asking me about my actual dad, occasionally bringing him up in convo, asking when I last saw him, etc (my folks are divorced but I see him pretty regularly). Eventually he starts inserting my dad into the sexting we do, first just to see what I would say, and then trying to see if I’d let him do stuff to me. I won’t lie, the first time he brought it up I felt like this weird feeling in my stomach, and now I realize it was butterflies because I was so nervous just talking about it, let alone imagining it. One thing led to another and now he’s (the tinder guy) basically manipulated me into having this fantasy which really turns me on.