Ok, first just for some background info, I’ve been with my boyfriend for more than 3 years now and we actually have a very stable and developing relationship that we both feel completely secure in. I don’t even believe in soulmates, but feel like he is my soulmate if that concept existed. I love him more than anything in this world and would never do anything to hurt him (PLEASE keep this in mind). I repeat, I would NEVER do anything to hurt him. So with that said, I also have to mention that part of our development and growth in our relationship has been working on ourselves. Ever since we both went to a meditation retreat last year, we made an agreement to never give up on our self development, and in turn this would lead to not give up on our relationship. It basically relates to the old as time concept of “If you can’t love yourself, how the hell are you going to love anyone else?”. And speaking of love, our idea of love has been transforming ever since that retreat and our daily practice of meditation.