I definitely had a huge change of heart about condoms a few years ago and never went back. I was about 19, and a Freshman in college. The year had been hard on me being away from my very beautiful Israeli girlfriend who had been accepted to another school. We had been dating for all of our senior year of high school and were doing our best to make it work long distance. She was a virgin when we started dating and was hesitant to lose her virginity. After months of dating and doing everything else except actual penetration, she was ready. The condoms we used were very basic, but I knew them to be very sturdy (so as to put her mind at ease.) It was a beautiful experience, and one I will never forget. She was shaking as I penetrated her for the first time, gently shushing her and kissing her softly until I was deep inside of her. We went slowly and after maybe 20 minutes, we both orgasmed and collapsed. Now, though this is a fond memory, it’s not one I like to look back on too often. Of course, halfway through the second half of the semester, she dumped me….