My husband and I are in an open relationship – we both hook up with other people and often we play with other couples too. Recently, we created a group chat with all our fwbs (2-3 each) and some couples that we regularly swap with. At the beginning of December, one of those couples shared the number of a guy who they highly recommended. A fwb of my husband soon backed them up, raving about how good he’d been.
So naturally, I started texting him ;). His name was Michael, and our conversation was pretty easy-going, and he had a similar sense of humour too. We both knew exactly what each of us was looking for though and so about a week later, we decided to meet up for lunch at a cafe (we work just a few blocks from each other).