This happened back in December. I live with a girl (I’ll call her Liz) who’s 5 years older than me and she is very much a lesbian, while I am very much straight
Because of the lockdown, we couldn’t go see our families like we normally do during the holidays, so we just mostly drank and watched bad movies. We ended up bonding a lot more than we probably would have due to having to be around each other all the time, so we started to get more personal with our conversation, especially when we’d been drinking. Mostly it was family stuff, people we hated, regrets, etc. But we’d also occasionally talk about sex, which was sort of nice…I’d never been comfortable talking about it with my other friends.
One night we were drinking, and we started talking about sex again, complaining about the impossibility of it during lockdown, etc. And I decided to make a stupid joke to Liz, saying it wasn’t bad for her since she just needed to try harder and turn me if she wanted to be licked so badly. I don’t remember the exact way I worded it, but I remember Liz was silent for a bit, and I stumbled and tried to explain my joke better…and then Liz got mad.