[M] Cheating on my wife for second time with an ex-gf

Some weeks ago I posted about how I first cheated on my gf (now wife) 4 years ago with a hot american milf. The sex and our behaviour was so dirty that I think it changed me forever.

During the next 3 months I worked really hard on hiding that sin from everyone and cut connections with the milf. I was happy with my gf and I wanted to marry her. Sex with gf was even better than ever, as after cheating I gained self-confidence and was more dominant, while she enjoyed being sub and manhandled.

However another event happened after three months. I had an innocent lunch with my best friend (who happens to be a girl and my ex-gf). For context, my ex-gf and I were together long ago but we never had sex because of traumas and issues to be treated by professionals. However, we split for other reasons and she was still a virgin.

I met with her because I wanted her support in choosing a suitable ring to ask my gf to marry me. We chose 2-3 candidates and then went to my shared apartment, and my gf was visiting some family, so it was just my ex-gf and me.

[M] About how I first cheated on my wife with a hot milf

I have always been the perfect bf, the perfect husband, and the perfect work mate. Correct, professional, well-behaving, no dramas and no shady stuff.

However, 4 years ago (I was 28 and with a gf) something happened. I was then working in Barcelona (Spain) in an office job with the team all over the world. At some point, some people in US needed some training and I was offered to go there for a week to train them. All went great, I met a lot of new people and enjoyed it a lot. I also met this divorced milf, 42 yo (let’s call her H) with 3 children that was super-joyful and playful. Nothing happened then and there, but we really clicked and joked around for that week.

Flash-forward 3 months: we did a big company meeting in Barcelona during a week and this milf, that happened to be a director, came with the rest of the executives. At first, H and I only met a couple of times to have some drinks. We playfully kissed good bye on both ocassions, which was already telling me that something was changing in me. She knew I had a gf, I knew he had a bf in US, but this was just playful behaviour, right…? However, I also knew that she had been hunting for a hung man in city to forget her frustrations, but I didn’t want to get into that.