So I’m 37, divorced,white, a gym goer, fairly muscular/athletic, beard with shirt hair. I work in a small government office and I’m the youngest guy there by a mile. I wasn’t always a gym goer until a few years ago and when I started lifting, a coworker, Carol, was the only person who commented on my physical changes. Nothing too flirty, but she just asked what I did at the gym etc. Carol is 55ish, brunette, nice figure, 5’6 or so and easily has D cups. She’s always nice and has a southern accent. She’s a grandmother and talks about her grandkids often and I’ve just never seen her in sexual way.
Well, because of COVID i barely interact with anyone other than the few people I work with and that’s only when we happen to be in the office together. Carol and I began to talk more and more on the days we worked together. We’d chit chat about work and coworkers, family, etc. She likes the gym also. All surface level stuff. We’d joke about needing to drink because of work. She’s become a good friend during the last year and helps me look forward to going to work.