I am in an amazing marriage that has opened into more of a poly situation. Everything based in truth and honesty because that matters to me a lot.
When this happened I was in a collared d/s with a man 20 years my senior. He was my first dominant ever after years of proclaiming “ i am not submissive to anyone”, it was my first taste of being free and being me. It was a very long distance relationship so we had only been together in person once before.
My dom belonged to clubs where he was from and I had always been curious/ semi aroused to be a voyeur. When he came to see me for the second time there was a bdsm event at the local swingers club. I wanted him to be my first and be the one to guide me into this new world. I let him dress me up however he wanted, buy whatever he wanted me to wear to the club, decide makeup style, and even my hair.