My wife and I, 34 and 35 respectively, have talked on and off for years about the possibility of having a threesome – and, more specifically my desire to see her do things with another guy. Until recently it’s just been something we talk about when we are feeling particularly frisky. She would talk about how much fun it would be to be with another guy while she rode me or while I went down on her because she knew that it really turned me on. But we never acted on it.
But then things changed. About 6 months ago one of our best guy friends got divorced. He’s been having a really hard time emotionally and has spent a lot of time at our house as a result. We have him over for dinner, board games, movies, etc. And sometimes he’d stay the night on the couch or in our guest bedroom if he was here really late. One night, not too long ago, he came over for dinner and a movie and we all drank a lot at dinner. As we drank we talked about how he’s having a hard time and he made several comments about how he misses being with a woman and how he hasn’t been with anyone since the divorce. My wife made a joking comment about he needs a female friend with benefits and he joked back that she’s his best female friend but she has no benefits. We all got a big laugh out of it but it really turned me on.