My girlfriend Avery is from Australia, and this is her first Chrismas away from home. For background, she’s 21 and 5’10, I’m 26 and 6’0. She was upset that this was going to be her first Christmas without her family, so I knew that I was going to have to do something special for her. I’m the type of guy who likes to plan these things out in advance, not so much that I know every detail of what I’m going to be doing, but enough that I’ll have a game plan.
I knew that the most important thing was going to be to make sure that we were both very relaxed, so I invited Avery to come shower with me. She knew bits and pieces of my game plan (you kind of have to for anal, you can’t just surprise a girl with it), but didn’t know exactly what I planned on doing. She loves when I put shampoo on my hands and run my fingers through her hair. The idea here, and men take note, is to make sure that we both feel the intimacy that comes with washing each other and to make sure that we both know that we love each other. I soaped up her body, but this was not a sexual shower. Even though we definitely both got excited, this was about undergoing the slow process of relaxing every muscle in the body.