Hooking up with a local Redditor [MF]

I had been posting on the local r4r subreddit hoping to find someone fun and interesting. I would usually post asking for someone who was a squirter or wanted to try to squirt as this is one of my biggest kinks. After mostly messages from gay guys trying to convince me that a bj would be far better than a woman’s, I got a message from Abby asking to chat. We start with the normal niceties. She had just recently graduated from college and was studying to get into law school. She shared that she had recently got out of a long term relationship and was hoping to become more experienced sexually. This was great for me because I love exploring new things with a partner. We chat about our kinks and turn ons and whatnot. We both love oral, both giving and receiving, but haven’t received it much in our past relationships. This excites me because I’m so used to only giving that the idea of being “spoiled” sounds amazing. We chatted for a couple days before Abby asks if i would like to grab a drink after I get off work and before she has to go to work for the night. I drive to the small bar close to her work that she suggests.