Over the past few months I’ve noticed several instances where my wife has talked about black guys in very sexual ways. First of all, she’s very shy and reserved. We’ve only had sex with each other and doesn’t watch porn nor masturbates much at all so this is really the only kink she has that I’m aware of. The first instance occurred when we were picking out a dildo online. She was very apprehensive and wanted to look at the toys with me. But as we started browsing, she would point out whenever a black dildo came up and jokingly would say I want that “big black one.” To hear those dirty words was a shock.
The 2nd instance was when she thought her IUD had shifted. She was thinking that the dildo we use bumped it (because it it bottoms her out). And then she said “but I really don’t think it should move during sex, what if I’m having sex with a black guy who has a huge cock; it still shouldn’t move.” Once again, totally unlike her to say something that dirty and it was so hot to hear.