I’ve had a few fairly long term relationships, most with a generally decent sexual component. Just after the break-up with a long term post high school gf (and after an almost unbroken 7 month dry spell that had been preceded by almost daily sexual activity) I was approached by someone in a college class I had. Melissa, physically, was the polar opposite of my ex, with D-cup breasts and a decent ass. She was a little chubby, but that didn’t bother me, as, when in college, I wasn’t the most outgoing person, and the combination of the dry spell and the fact that she approached me led to a frankly not great in any way relationship.
Anyway, the sex was…fairly vanilla, as I was (and presumably still am) more experimental than her and willing to try new things, both in and out of bed. The “kinkiest” thing she would do is ask me to rent some porn from the local video store for us to watch together (damn I’m old). And she would get invested in the story.