How I [TF] broke the girl [F]

A little before the pandemic made the world go to shit, I met up with this girl and had the wildest sexual experience of my life. We met on a certain kink website. She’s cute, mid-20s, Asian, ear length cut, about average height and weight, same as I am, though a softer body type to my, I don’t know, kinda of fit look? I wanted to try domming, she wanted to try subbing. Neither of us had any real experience in either, so we were gonna just go with the flow and see what felt right. But up until we met, all our conversation was very casual, matter-of-fact. Our discussions about sexual histories, desires, boundaries, etc. were like a business meeting. I’m over 5 years post-transition at that point in time, and while I’m mostly comfortable with myself, my body and my own sexuality, I never really know about other people’s perceptions of trans people, so I tend to play it very cautious. But every other time I’ve met up with someone, there was at least a lead-up of naughty texts and pics before we did the dirty. None of that here.