A kinky, gentle femdom session takes a surprising switch [MF]

This very hot sequence of events happened this past weekend, and I’m writing it down here primarily so I have a place to go back and remember the details. If the rest of you enjoy it, all the better! The story begins a few paragraphs down, if you want to skip the exposition.

My fiance [25F] and I [30M] have been together five years (just got engaged this year), and occasionally get in the mood to do some casual bdsm. I’ve got the higher libido, but she’s definitely the wilder one. Before I met her I had tried a bit of rough sex here and there, but had never done anything considered “kinky.” She was into bdsm and had a history as a sub. She asked me pretty soon after we started dating if I’d try it out. I cautiously said yes, and tried my hand at being a daddy dom. Turned out, I loved it! We took it slow, and our play would usually be on the lighter side (her pain tolerance is not that high), but I really enjoyed it. I did some “thorough” online research and worked to learn more. As most couples, we go through more vanilla phases… but when one of us was in the mood for something a little spicier all we’d have to do was pull out the cuffs!