In order to continue with part 2, I need to offer a little bit of background.
There was this girl in highschool, we started chatting online, then found out we had a lot in common, I was attracted that to her because she was very thoughtful, a good conversationalist and she was into the same type of music I was into.
There was some very nice chemistry between us, we had long walks around the city, big hugs and cuddles in public to keep ourselves warm etc. She was in a relationship though, so neither of us wanted to get past a point where it would be obvious cheating from her side.
Due to some misunderstanding a great conflict started between us, culminating with her causing a big scene in public.
After a while and some efforts from my side, she realised she was totally wrong ( not only with her reaction, but with what she believed in the first place). Then a veeeeery long history of “when i was available she was not and vice versa” followed over the course of 3 years, a lot of ghosting (from my douchy side) was involved and some very intimate romantic dinner at her place followed by watching Breakfast at Tiffany’s while cuddling also happened.