I [f early 30s] have recently found myself single after being with the same man for a decade and married for most of it.
I havent been sure how to proceed with my newfound freedom, but was curious about OLD, since apps like tinder and bumble didnt exist when I was a free young college student.
After a few misses and go-nowhere messages, I decided to meet up with a guy from a dating app last weekend. He wasnt the hottest in photos, but he had decent banter and asked a lot about myself in mesages, so I decided to go through with it.
I knew that bumble was the name of the app, but I didn’t expect it to literally describe the man I would meet. This guy had decent conversation, but he gave a very boring vibe, and while visuals arent everything, he very much carefully chose his angles in his profile.
After the date ended, I found myself feeling sexually frustrated and thirsty for cock in every possible way.
In the desperation of my utterly immediate needs, I started browsing the r4rs in my area on reddit.