This is the first in what could be a series of posts about an affair I had with my co-worker going back about two years now. It still occurs but we live in different cities now so its mostly through text/chat until we end up back in the same place at the same time. Obviously given that it was an affair, there was a level of infidelity involved so I’m asking for no judgement on that, its something we both felt terrible about and still do, there was just something really intense about the sexual chemistry that was hard to pass up.
So, this begins when I return from a two year hiatus from my old place of work, a not for profit organization that has grown substantially during my absence. This group works with at-risk individuals in the community and has a lot of people aged 35 and under working there, as such the get togethers when they happen tend be kind of wild, ‘there was definitely a work hard/play hard’ mentality that existed. After work drinks always seemed to get flirty, even before I left.