Happened earlier this summer. I was out with a few friends and friends of friends. There was a quiet woman with them, seemed very shy. We were all drinking and ended up at a small hip hop bar; we were all dancing. After a while, it was me, my friend, and the shy one.
Well, my friend goes to the bathroom and I’m on the dance floor with the other girl and it was one of those moments where you see a flash of something — definitely the “fuck me” vibes. I got a little closer, grounded slightly, and it was like a light flipped on for her. She sent from quiet and reserved to making out with me, grabbing me through my pants.
We moved to a couch and started making out and that’s when I had this wave come over me that I hadn’t felt before. All I could think about was dominating and humiliating this woman; it honestly embarrassed me a bit as I’ve been rough her and there sexually, but never dominating. I started moving my hand up, wrapping my fingers around her throat. She was a fit, petite Asian woman — I felt like could almost completely wrap one hand around her throat.