I [33F] started seeing Merlin [33M] a few months ago. We had good conversations and went out a few times for dinner or would meet up for board games. When we had sex for the first time it was a little awkward. We’re both very shy and hadn’t talked about what the other person likes sexually. It was still good; in fact, he ate me out like no man ever has before. (More on that later)
We kept meeting up, sometimes we’d have sex, sometimes we would hang out with his friends or just watch a movie. After 2 months of meeting like this, we were reading together on his couch one night and I let him read a chapter of the book I was reading. In this chapter, a dom punishes his sub by spanking her and making her count… you know how it goes. Afterwards he said, “It seems like the guy isn’t a great guy.” So I thought he didn’t like it and wasn’t into any kink, since we had been very vanilla to this point.