I made a post on r/sex but I figured I can go more in detail here. I’m 23 years old. Lost my virginity at 16 to an old friend. Was in a relationship with my HS sweetheart from 16-21. Hooked up with a number of girls from 22 until last May. Everything was vanilla, but I’ve always had urges to try more. Like yeah, I had rough sex with my ex and with 4 or 5 girls I hooked up with. Nothing too rough; a lot of missionary or doggy with some light choking and spanking but that was it. She also got VERY wet and even with my 6 inch girth I didn’t feel a lot of pleasure most of the time. She also sucked at head but could take my dick better than most girls I’ve been with.
I’ve wanted to do more for a while, I think part of it due to porn and part of it just being bored of regular sex with my VERY vanilla ex. We weren’t very sexually compatible which ended up being part of the list of reasons we broke up.