I didn’t even realize I did this until someone pointed it out to me. And admittedly, there are other kinks out there, that could be much worse. but I guess this one is mine.
So I’m relatively young (30), so I’ve had my fair share of girlfriends and friends with benefits. And I just realized that most of the women I’ve been with… I’ve asked them to wear these super high, clear stripper heels. To the bedroom, or even out on dates (depending on how daring the woman is). I don’t know, it’s just something about them, for me they are really sexy, ultra feminine and oozzing sex appeal. And it’s not like I’ve been to many strip clubs, it’s just not my thing.
A FWB pointed this out to me one day. I’m with her, and we’re hanging out at the bar, and she’s wearing the heels out. We decided to meet up with an ex-GF of mine. We’ve separated, but are better friends than we were partners. So we’re chatting, and the conversation shifted to me, as they were comparing war stories. All good fun. That’s when my FWB asked my ex-gf about the high heels thing. If I ever asked her to wear them. YES of course. That’s when they realized that I had this thing. And frankly that’s when I realized myself.