His side of the story is [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/VirginityExchange/comments/avlrbw/39_m4f_seattletoronto_successgo_big_or_go_home/)
What happens when you take the following:
– Sex at a sex club in Toronto
– A Redditor who flew in from Seattle to meet me
– Said Redditor was 39M and a virgin
– I stayed at his hotel with him two nights in a row
– We had tons of fun, great chemistry and great sex
Each one of these things may or may not be exceptional in and of themselves. But for them to happen all together at once? I dunno if I’d believe it either.
The story begins when I saw his r/VirginityExchange [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/VirginityExchange/comments/9r346z/38_m4f_seattle_area_wa_i_guess_ive_got_nothing_to/) in November. (I’ll call him Lewis, and myself, Nico.) Every now and again I’ll go and see who’s there – I was also a late bloomer, struggled with sexuality and the concept of virginity (psst… it’s a bullshit social construct), so, I sympathize. I really liked his post – it was funny, had personality and soul, and I felt like I got a good sense of him (that initial impression stayed consistent throughout our PMs, texts, video chats and eventual meet up). What the heck, I thought, I’ll just message him. I said something like, “You sound awesome. Thanks for the laughs. Too bad we’re not in the same city. If you’re ever in Toronto, PM me. I’d love to create a great sex-positive experience with you.” And with that, began our correspondence. I really didn’t think anything would happen. He was a five-hour flight away!