I’ll try to be brief. (It didn’t work.) My wife and I are 30 and 31, married for almost 10 years. We have 3 kids. Our sex has always been good, usually comprised of lots of foreplay, traded oral, and PIV to close it out, across generally 90 minutes or so. Over the past couple of years, things have gotten exponentially better, and we keep joking that maybe THIS is the peak… maybe THIS…. but I think last night might have finally been it.
My wife only historically has reached orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Based on what we’d heard and read, we tried lots of things to accomplish enjoyable G spot stimulation, including hand techniques, specific toys, different positions and penetration techniques, etc, but nothing has worked and she’s always said she’s very satisfied with clit stim to get there. So she probably orgasms 60% of the time from oral, 30% of the time with a toy (either that I’m using on her, or she’s using usually while going down on me), and 10% riding. We’ve never experienced what I’d call like a deep-penetrative triggered orgasm, and I’m not sure I even could.