I [M] was sad and found a married [F] red head at the bar

This happened about ten years ago.

At the time I was 25 and had just gotten out of a long term relationship. I was pretty bummed, because it ended so poorly and needed to find a way to drown my sorrows. I had a friend that lived in a large city, and made the road trip to his apartment downtown. We went out to a bunch of dance clubs and bars that night, and I flirted with other women for the first time in years.

The last place we went to was a decent sized dance club, with a ton of people. The music was loud and the lights were low, and I found myself at the perfect drunkenness of not being too drunk but feeling good at the same time. As I was headed to the dance floor I noticed this woman looking for something behind a speaker. She was in her mid 20’s, about 5’5”, with red hair and freckles. She was skinny with a nice ass, wearing jeans and a v neck t-shirt. Her boobs were not that big, maybe an A or B cup. (For those wondering, I’m 6’2″ about 200 lbs, fit with brown hair and blue eyes.) If I had to compare her to someone it would be Isla Fisher from Wedding Crashers.

I [M] had sex with and came inside a married woman at the gym parking lot.

This happened a few months ago.

I go to the gym frequently and I started to notice this sexy fit woman coming in at the same time as I did a few days a week. She was short, like 5’3″, brunette, brown eyes, fit, really nice legs, hard round ass and B cup boobs. She had the body of a gymnast, with slightly darker skin. I’m 6’2″ about 200 lbs, fit with brown hair and blue eyes.

I saw her at the gym for about a month or and we always made eye contact, but I didn’t do anything about it. She had a ring on her finger, like a silicone ring that one would have to workout with. One day she was on the squat rack and couldn’t rack the weight properly so I came and helped her. We made small talk for a bit and that was it.

For the next few weeks I’d see her and talk, with some casual flirting about how she looked. I’d tease her about needing to carry a step stool around so she could reach thigs without asking for help. She’d laugh and playfully punch me and call me names. Finally I asked for her number, knowing she was married. She said I was bad, but gave it to me anyways. We texted each other for about two weeks on and off, and things got sexual.