This was with an ex I was dating when I was freshly 18. My ex, (M) and his older brother will be (J). J was 29.
My ex, M invited me to live with him in his city with his mom and other brother who isn’t a part of this story. J lived only about a 5 minute drive from their family home and would visit almost daily to just hangout and chat with everybody.
M started to sexually neglect me a bit, always claiming he was too tired to fool around, which really sucks. I always had a bit of a crush on J ever since I first met him, I found him really attractive, and of course he was older which is a weakness of mine…
Sometimes J would come over to the family house before anybody was off work and would chat with me until they arrived. I started confiding in him about his little brother, my ex, M, wasn’t putting out really anymore and how sexually frustrated I was getting. He told me too, that his fiance doesn’t put out for him either. I felt really bad for him. Doing hard labour, being the bread winner of his home and getting no relief. We started to flirt and did end up fucking a handful of times!