My Wife Denied Me for a Week, What Happened Next Surprised Me [MF]

My wife and I have developed a bit of a dom/sub kink and it’s very much quickly evolving.

In the past week, up until yesterday, my wife denied me from cumming. This is despite me having to do the following to/for her:

– I was caged for 4 days, not including night wear. That’s just not comfortable for me yet, I tried and barely slept and ended up taking it off midway through the night.

– Three times during the week I gave my wife oral and made her cum while fucking her with a larger dildo. She had me lick and suck the dildo clean after we were done. I was caged during these times. It still amazes me how well a cage works at keeping me from getting hard.

– Nearly every day she had me wear one of her thongs all day. Some days she had me pick, other days she selected.

– Each day I gave her some sort of massage (back, foot, etc.)

Rekindling Married Sex Life [MF]

Longer post. Scroll to the xxxxx for the sexual parts.

Going on just over 10 years of marriage, over 15 years together, and 3 kids, my wife and I certainly got comfortable with each other and things in the bedroom got stale. First sex became once a week, then once a month, and it was always the same. I go down on her to get her warmed up, we fuck missionary, and then wrap it up. Bleh.

I was annoyed by it. We had talked about it and she agreed things had gone a bit stale, but that’s “what happens to married couples after this long.” Things changed for a bit, but then quickly settled back into the routine.

I wasn’t going to settle for that. I have fantasies, many of which I never expressed to her. Finally I told myself screw it, and speak up. So one night watching TV, I finally said to her I want you to control me when we have sex (start small, right?). After some what’s and where did this come from, I said it all. I told her every one of my fantasies that I could think of. Some she was intrigued by (controlling me, denying me, letting me lick her ass), others she flat out said no to (threesomes, peeing on me, heavy bondage). I think I just picked the right night to talk about it. She was in a good mood and very receptive.

34/34 [MF] Created a No Nut November Challenge with My Wife (Day 7)

Many of you reached out asking to keep everyone posted, so here’s the latest update from today (Day 7).

– Day 5 (evening): Nothing to report. She had a rough, long day at work. I didn’t push for anything, and just let it go.

– Day 6 (morning): After typical morning pleasantries/routines she was off to work, nothing special. After feeling her out a bit over text and getting good vibes, I messaged her that yesterday was day 5 and I made it, so I get my first reward. She replied suppose you do with a wink emoji. Several minutes later with the … icon in iMessages going, she finally replied, “but you aren’t going to make it 10.” I just LOL’d back and let it go.

– 5 Day Reward – We started off small with the rewards and worked up from there. So nothing fun or sexual here, but I cook 99.99% of the time here, and my first reward was for her to cook 3 dinners for the family. She’s not a bad cook, just doesn’t like doing it and I want a break from it.

34/34 [MF] Created a No Nut November Challenge with My Wife (Day 5)

Burner account for obvious reasons…

I created a No Nut November variant challenge with my wife, and it’s been quite the challenge thus far as we enter day 5.

The challenge is pretty simple. Every 5 days that I go without cumming, I get a reward. Rewards are sexual and non-sexual. Similarly, my wife has a reward list (again sexual and non-sexual). If 5 days go by without her making me cum an item comes off the rewards list. She’s allowed to cum as much as she wants.

Day 1: We had sex with me on top. I was able to control the pace and not cum while she did. I last came during sex 3 days before, so I wasn’t too built up, but man did I want to fill her tight pussy.

Day 2: Not much play during the day, but when we went to bed she unexpectedly took my cock out, jerked me off for 15 minutes and abruptly stopped. I fell asleep with my cock in her hands.