Long post likely. Just happened last night and I’m still shocked, its pretty crazy.
So my boyfriend and I (F) have been trying to break into the swinger scene for the past 6 months with little success. My boyfriend linked up with this guy though on an app who lived like an hour and a half away, and we all started chatting. He was my type, and I was excited to play with him. We planned to meet up a few weekends later with one of his play partners (F). We’d spend the night, and drink. Note, it was advertised as come over and we can hang out. We wanted to see if we vibed or not.
Leading up to it it was pretty crazy, sleeping over a strangers house that wanted to fuck us, very far away from home. Especially since it was my first time really drinking (have sipped things but was very anti alcohol until recently). But we had a good feeling, a signal if we were uncomfortable, and I had thoroughly online stalked him lmao. We felt alright.