My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, and even before we were together, we had been hooking up on and off since high school. We’re very familiar with each other but since we got into a committed relationship, I didn’t feel the thrill. I wanted to add the spice back into our sex, because every other aspect of our relationship has been so fulfilling.
I talked to him about these feelings I’ve been having and we had an open talk about all the things that turn us on, our deepest fantasies and whatnot. He admitted that he didn’t even have a fantasy he wanted to play out, but when he masturbates, oftentimes he thinks about the first time we ever had sex, our senior year of high school.
That night, he complimented the shirt I was wearing, he was super handsy all night, just all over me, which gets me so turned on. We went back to my house and he had to “convince me” (he knew I wanted him just as bad, but I was playing the “pure” card) to let him fuck after about an hour of teasing each other, making out, dry humping, the whole bit. We eventually had (surprisingly) amazing sex on my parents couch while my whole family slept upstairs.