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My boyfriend, the virgin part 2: How a HJ-FWB grew into a boyfriend or how he got quicker

Since I broke things off at the first date, I thought things would end there. Apparently Tim had different ideas. He kept starting conversations with me, both online and offline, and I kept responding. For a while I thought I had inadvertently friendzoned him. To be honest, it didn’t mind me that much as I liked his attention and I had been clear enough on my intention.

Our more sexual late night conversations continued as well. He kept praising my looks and handjob skills which flattered me. I didn’t see any of the shyness of that first date anymore and we actually got a bit flirty. When he praised the handjob he got again I told him that he didn’t had any comparison material, to which he reacted that I was the one who could change that. “Well, it would still be two handjobs from the same person. I can’t imagine it would make much of a difference.” – “You know I have no experience at all, I only know your hand. But I can’t imagine needing anything more.”. I know that was a cheesy and slimy line, but still it did something to me. It flattered me, but even more so I think it gave me reassurance. That I would be enough, even with my vaginismus. I hadn’t had a virgin in a while and I guess his lack of experience had the advantage of making everything I did being the best he ever had. Read more »

A very quick semi-public handjob in a themepark [fm] [hj]

One of my most public actions with my boyfriend was at a local themepark called the Efteling (normally about 5 million visitors a year). We visited the park on a quiet day at the end of the winter so most people flocked to the rides. We however choose instead to visit one of the many walkthrough areas. One of them, the Fairy Tale Forest was our goal for that morning.

We walked through the scenes with dioramas and animatronics and about half an hour later things got a bit more frisky and we were doing more and more risque stuff. That started with mostly feeling through each others clothes every time we were alone for half a minute or so but in the end went as far as him feeling in my shirt and I in his pants, enclosing his hard penis with my fingers. That got us a bit more in the mood and once we got out of the forest I came up with a plan. I asked him if he was aroused and with some surprise on his face he reminded me that I was holding his very hard penis only minutes ago. “So you can be a bit quick about it? I’ve got an idea if you can!” My boyfriend already knew about my preference for a quicker orgasm when I was giving him a handjob and he gladly obliged. And one of the great things about it, is that it makes moments like this possible. So with a smile on his face he told me he could do that for me and I told him to follow me. Read more »

He wants sex, he gets a handjob creampie [MF] [Fdom]

Over the last few years I’ve really grown to love playing with dominance and powerplay. An important bit of context for this story is that I’m really into giving handjobs and that I really like it if a guy is quick. Combine those three elements and you get the handjob creampie, a thing I used to manipulate a guy into quite often .

What usually happened was that I had a sex date with a guy to which I heavily implied that he would get to have full on sex with me that moment (or most often I tried to find out if that was his expectation, which was usually the case). When we were in the bedroom and got unclothed, I lay myself next to him, half over him and started fondling with his penis that went over into slowly and loosely tugging him. He thought it was foreplay, while my secret goal was to make him ejaculate before he got in me. Read more »

When a bad date ends in a consolation handjob: Why the quick, efficient and orgasm-focused handjob is underrated [FM]

**Intro:**

I have had a lot of quick and orgasm-focused handjobs for guys with the goal of making him ejaculate as quickly as possible to relieve him from his arousal. There can be a lot of circumstances for them. For example you’d be at the swimming pool and don’t want him to be clingy because of his arousal, or you’re less in the mood but still want to help him out. A quick, efficient handjob can be both fun and convenient!

I have started writing these experiences down, this is the third example, you can find the first, [about a quick handjob during studying here](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/pfipbh/when_hes_distracted_by_his_arousal_during/) and the second, [about a quick handjob before swimming here](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/pjzgue/when_his_arousal_annoys_me_at_the_swimming_pool/).

**Experience:**

Before I met my current boyfriend every once in a while I had a bad date. Often enough it wasn’t that I really disliked the guy, often he was friendly enough, it just was so that I knew it would lead to nowhere (not interesting long term). Call me old fashioned but when a guy pays for everything during a date and he is friendly and it’s just me who’s not really into him, I’d still like to thank him for a nice paid for night out. Read more »

When his arousal annoys me at the swimming pool: Why the quick, efficient and orgasm-focused handjob is underrated [FM]

**Intro:**
I have had a lot of quick and orgasm-focused handjobs for my boyfriend with the goal of making him ejaculate as quickly as possible to relieve him from his arousal. There can be a lot of circumstances for them. For example you’d be at the swimming pool and don’t want him to be clingy because of his arousal, or you’re less in the mood but still want to help him out. A quick, efficient handjob can be both fun and convenient!

I have started writing these experiences down, this is the second example, you can find the first, [about a quick handjob during studying here](https://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/pfipbh/when_hes_distracted_by_his_arousal_during/).

**Experience:**
Until the whole current situation we used to go to a local swimming pool/small indoor waterpark nearby quite often. The only problem was that my boyfriend got quite aroused when we were there every time. I don’t know if it’s about looking at me in my bikini (like he says) or looking at other girls in bikini but he can get a stiff one fairly easily there. When that happens he can get a bit more clingy and want to cuddle more while we’re in the water, even if he doesn’t expect anything from me. Read more »

When he’s distracted by his arousal during studying: Why the quick, efficient and orgasm-focused handjob is underrated [FM]

I have had a lot of quick and orgasm-focused handjobs for my boyfriend with the goal of making him ejaculate as quickly as possible to relieve him from his arousal. There can be a lot of circumstances for them. For example you’d be at the swimming pool and don’t want him to be clingy because of his arousal, or you’re less in the mood but still want to help him out. A quick, efficient handjob can be both fun and convenient!

I would like to write those experiences down, starting with the situation in which he’s distracted by his arousal during studying and need for it to get away.

When my boyfriend and I were still in university/college, he often had evenings in which the entire focus was on studying. He wanted to go for hours when he was studying for an exam or writing his thesis since he found it to be hard to get back to work again when he stopped in the middle of it. There would be the obvious breaks for getting a drink or a bite or having to pee but those were very short and often (in the case of drinking and eating) still during studying. Read more »

I [F] helped out a friend [M] today with a quick efficient handjob [FM]

I have a few regular FWB’s. The guy I met today used to be one of them but I haven’t spoken him IRL for quite a long time now (close to a year), so everything started to dilute a bit. He started dating with a girl and we kept talking trough messenger but we had stopped with our FWB-thing, not consciously, it just stopped happening. However, I visited him today and we hit it off again right away.

We just had a casual conversation and after a while he mentioned that his love/sex life had been very slow for the last few months (not to say non existing). I always have the feeling a guy tries to get something when he says that. I don’t mind helping out though, although I am always a bit of a tease. “I bet you’re horny all the time then” I said smilingly to him. – “Yeah, you have no idea”. – “Oh, I might! I don’t mind helping you out though!”, I winked at him. Read more »

The handjob is under appreciated, I [F] really enjoy to make guys cum quickly from just that [FM]

I have a couple of FWBs and tend to be more on the dominant side with most of them. Recently I increased my dominance side. The fun thing is that they aren’t even that submissive. But the great thing as a female is that you have the power of the vagina; what you want sexually usually goes. Guys are easy to get horny and once they are you have them in your power. I really get off on that power play, which is a side of me I only found out about a few years ago. Perhaps it is because of the guys I get attracted to but I never had a guy that didn’t allow me to hold the strings during sex.

There has been a time in which I couldn’t do much more than that. I had vaginismus and because of that I couldn’t have penetrative sex. It forced me to be more creative with the possibilities I had left. Now I’m somewhat glad I went through that since it lead me to being very good in those things, instead of lazily using my vagina. Almost every girl can make a guy cum through her vagina but not every girl can jerk a guy off to an orgasm. I’m quite proud of that I can so easily. Read more »