I (F22) made my sexual debut in a one night stand at University. It went well, the guy kept checking I was alright, took things slow, all well and good. It was a Friday night and I had work the next morning and so when we woke up he got dressed and left. All in all, it wasn’t a bad experience.
A couple of weeks later on another night out I met another guy who was really quite interested in me. After how well my first one night stand had gone and in the spirit of thoroughly enjoying this sexual freedom I had recently found, I figured why not?
We went back to mine and got down to business. Now, the first thing that I took an issue with was his kissing technique. I mean, I like it when kissing involves biting the other person’s bottom lip gently now and again, in fact it can be a real turn on and it’s something I like doing too. When I tell you I’m lucky to have escaped with my lip still attached to my face? Seriously, he never let up and he bit **hard**. Next was the sex. It just really really wasn’t good. It was rough, but not in the good way. Obviously it’s safe to say I was pretty inexperienced at this point in time, far from an expert, but he kept slipping out, it was clumsy, messy and just all round a poor experience. But the icing on the cake was the next morning.