Author: OddDish9

[MF] After a break-up, I [M32] had a one-night stand and some public fingering with a girl [F27] who looked like my ex

About 3 years ago, my long-term girlfriend (of 5 years) had just broken up with me. I had been having a pretty rough time of coping. But along with the feelings of loss, dejection, shattered reality and expectations… came feelings of freedom and incredible horniness. I started an account on OkCupid about 5 months after our breakup.

It wasn’t too long before I got a match from a girl who seemed cool. She talked to me about TV shows and music, in kind of a flirty way. But strangest of all, she was the same age as my ex and overall bared a striking resemblance to her. Looking at her, I had to wonder, if I fucked her, would it feel like fucking my ex? But maybe even better?

Only one way to find out. I invited her to meet me, and she suggested somewhere downtown. I quickly perused the bars and picked one that seemed nice. I got an Uber. Read more »

[MF] [35M]et a girl [35F] on an app for cat people and corrupted her into a fuck monster

I had really been through it during quarantine. When it started I was lonely. Single. Alone. It had been more than a year since my last couple one-night stands and my last long term relationship was a few years in the past. I felt kind of forgotten since most of the news coverage pertaining to the pandemic was about the struggles of families and children and even couples. Single people who live alone with cats? Not as interesting or accessible I guess.

I downloaded dating apps. A lot of them, almost all of them. And I wasn’t sure what I wanted– I just knew that I was horny, like painfully horny, throbbingly horny. I wasn’t hoping to meet anyone in person. Too afraid of getting COVID. Would have loved even to sext or have phone sex. I talked to several girls over the course of the next few months, until, dissatisfied with a lack of general emotional honesty and connection*—* or turned off by girls asking too much of me and making me uncomfortable*—* I had to take some time away from the apps and re-prioritize. Hang out with my cat. Read more »