I (36M) swipe on vibes, not bios… especially with MILFs [FM]

Quick background… I’m a married guy in SoCal and I use Tinder (among other platforms) to find potential kinky play partners. I’ve been doing this on Tinder for few years now and I learned early on to ignore the bios and exclusively swipe on vibes.

I sound like a jerk I know but as this will story show my success rate can’t be argued with. I’ll chronicle all my kinky adventures here but I’ll write up my latest one for now…

I swipe on Julez at the height of the recent covid uptick with no particular timetable in mind. She was a cute young MILF, gorgeous ass, DSLs and she mentioned she was recently separated. Her bio had all the usual stuff… God, faith, honesty, blah blah blah. I swipe and two days later we match.

My bio is very direct so I always send the same opening about whether they swiped on the bio or the pet pics, she tells me that she has always been intrigued and into rougher play sessions. Before marriage she was a fuck toy for her neighbor who was a Dom.