Most I’m sure would agree that whenever you try something for the first time, sexual or otherwise, it can feel different or even uncomfortable and you are faced with two choices either give up or continue on learning as you go until it all falls into place.
My wife and I decided to give pegging a try, if you don’t know what this is look it up or just keep reading, and while this was at my suggestion I have had the good fortune to be blessed with a partner who is both broad minded and happy to experiment with new things.
After a bit of research on the subject and the acquisition of what we thought were suitable toys we started experimenting. As expected it was a little uncomfortable and uncoordinated at first but nonetheless there were some very pleasurable moments that convinced us to keep trying.
In these early attempts there had been no domination play no real acknowledgement of the whole role reversal thing we were just trying to work it all out. Then something seemed to click and it went from clumsy and awkward to ecstatically hot. This is not about the first time we tried it but it is about the first time it seemed to go oh so right.