For context, my husband [M38) and I (F 36) are swingers and have been in the lifestyle for the last 2 years. We have been with couples and we have had a treesome [MMF] – this will be important later.
We have a set of rules, such as we only swing together, always in the same room and for us it’s about the experience, about improving our relationship and making it more spicy. We have an amazing sex life, so it’s not about needing it… it’s about wanting it.
Last year my husband was away for work for 2 weeks. I was at home missing the hell out of him. And having a very high sex drive (both of us), being so long without sex is a torment. So we sexted everyday, sent nudes, videos and mastrubated. These things are awesome..but even if I get off, they make me even hornier.