So this post is about a challenge that I hope to create soon and more to follow. Looking for mainly women’s feedback on my activity and also any ideas for the future. Some background first but if you like to jump to it scroll down to the line break with **Actual Challenge starts here** .
Wife and I (both 30) have been married for a few years now and generally have an active and healthy sex life, if a bit vanilla. Our normal sex routine follows a fairly standard script: Foreplay with kissing, touching and teasing, maybe oral, and then a few different sex positions. She’ll probably cum once or twice along the way and it typically ends when I cum. Could be a 5-10 min quickie or 30-40 mins depending on the night or our moods. We were both open to expanding a bit and found the Let’s Experiment website to be very useful to help communicate what we both like and new things we want to try. After taking the quiz we actually found there was a few new things on the list to try but were struggling on how to introduce them to our daily sex life. For example she was into having her hands tied and blindfolded during sex, but wasn’t comfortable with me just randomly pulling out some rope in the middle of the session and getting super dominant (at least not the first time). She wanted some time to prep for it mentally. Plus the anticipation and excitement of knowing you’re going to do something new or kinky that night can be a huge turn on in itself.