I’ve never talked about this before, but wanted to share my experiences from trying to dabble in this years back. My experiences will be very tame compared to what’s often on here, but maybe there will be some ‘hotness’ to them based on their truth.
I never found myself turned on by the thought of sharing my girlfriend until I was in my late teens early twenties. I picked up my girlfriend from a nightclub when I was about 21 and she was 18. We’ll call her Stacy. She had been with probably 3 times more people I had at the time (5vs15), and this made me think she would be receptive to my fantasy. I brought up fantasy talk numerous times always looking for the right time to bring mine up. I didn’t want to escalate from something so light straight into something so crazy. I would often ‘sext’ her and escalate the dirty talking waiting for my time. I finally brought it up one time sexting about having sex on the side road when a police officer pulls up. I replied ‘If he was going to give us a ticket, would you let him grab your tits to get out of it’. She replied something like ‘If you would let me I would’. I said ‘What if after that he wanted you to suck his cock?”. She said “I don’t know, would you want me to do something like that”. I said “Maybe, if it could get us out of the ticket I’d let you.”. She said “Then I’d probably do it.”