Back in 2020 when the first wave had just started, i was one of the few lucky ones whose life was kinda amazing! My flatmate had left and I was living in a 2 bedroom flat in the center of the city all by myself, still paying only my half of the rent! I was working 50% of my hours and making 90% of my wages! I had loads of free time and some really good spring weather! I was also in the midst of a violent slut phase and going on 3-4 dates a week!
One of these dates happened to be with Anni – I was sitting in the park, reading a book when a notification pinged on my phone. Here was a match with this cute German girl – big blue/green eyes, blonde/brownish hair, a cute smile and what’s more she even texts first! by this point my tinder game was pretty strong and routine. We exchanged a few texts and set up a park date in a couple of days! As I was just lazying about in the park by myself, we continued chatting. She asked something about ice cream and whether i was a licker or a biter, and I didn’t need a 2nd invitation to push this conversation in a sexual direction. Her response wasn’t the most enthusiastic and over the next couple of days, I met with resistance each time I tried to escalate conversations into a sexual direction.