I’ve been married now (3rd time) for about 16 years, and love my wife dearly.
However she became disabled around 11 years ago, and is both unable to and isn’t interested in sex of any kind, and she’s watched my mental decline over all these years and been unable to help in any way. Recently we were talking about it and she suggested it was time I found a fuck buddy, so long as I am discreet about it and she doesn’t know about it. Odd but I am her primary carer and recently retired in order to take proper care of her.
I am bi, which she is aware of, and has no problem if that’s the way I want to go, so long as I stick to the rules.
About 2 months ago I joined Reddit and have made a lot of friends who are both great to talk to, and help get my rocks off, but I crave that intimacy of another person to cuddle up with and enjoy. Especially as everyone I had contact me were on the other side of the world, and most were just creeps who wanted me to send them pictures of my cock and ass.