My ex-wife and I had a couple of experiences in “the lifestyle.”
I wasn’t crazy about doing it, but she was really excited and shoot, anything that gets your wife fired up is worth looking into. We made contact with a couple and met a few times for drinks. I thought the wife of the other group was good looking, and my wife was really attracted to the other guy.
Well, after knowing these folks for quite some time, we decided to meet them for dinner and drinks and share a hotel room afterwards. The initial agreement was to just watch them doing each other while they watched us doing each other. Sounded intriguing, so off we went.
We had a great time at dinner and all 4 of us had nice little buzzes going as we made our way to the hotel.