I travel a lot for work. This leaves me with lots of lonely nights in hotels, and hotels always make me horny. So, if I’m being honest, there are some nights I don’t spend alone…
I’m not the type to go out to a club, and I prefer talking to people. Conversation and getting to know someone, even if superficially, is what turns me on. Plus I tend to better with women when I can communicate, rather than just shouting “what?” in each other’s ears.
Plus, as much as I do love variety (and I do, sue me…) I also do like getting to know someone sexually, and not just having repeated one night stands. When I connected with this woman on a dating site she was disappointed to learn that I didn’t live in her city. We’d already flirted quite a bit, and had established interest in one another, but she was hoping she was going to find someone who lived in town.
I reminded her that I would be a frequent visitor and can be a fun friend until she finds the long term relationship she was looking for, and followed it up with a Wink emoji…