So I guess a bit of story with a title like that…. my wife and I had a baby over a year ago. Before that, and even durring the pregnancy we screwed like rabbits many times it being atleast once a day never going more than less than 2 in a row without sex. So after our son was born I more than expected a lack of sex. That lack went on for linger than frankly either of us would have liked, bottom line got advice from doctor and were getting it sorted, I won’t bore you with the details as this isn’t the sub for that.
I[22] suppose we will start with letting you guys in on something, Elle [23] hates foreplay, me doing it to her, her doing it to me, she would much rather just get into sex and both of us get there than anything else. Maybe I suck at foreplay, maybe she just never needed it to warm up I dunno, but what that means is, she’d much rather dive on in to sex, so handjobs/blowjob are quarterly in the best of times, and if I try to finger/go down on her I get a “thank you, but please fuck me now” after a few moans of satisfaction with lots of giggling in between. So I’m sure you can imagine, new parents that had the collective energy of the long dead batteries to your VHS remote… there was not much in the bedroom for a while, in addition labor had seemed to make it so whenever we tried to have sex, she would essentially cramp up and would hurt us both so we just didn’t.