I suspected my wife was cheating for a while and now I know for certain. I am unbelievably turned on by it.
We have been married for a few years and have a great relationship both emotionally and sexually. Even before we were married we talked openly about our fantasies and role playing. We have even acted out some of those. She has even told me about her girl on girl experiences while at university.
Recently she started a new job as a district retail manager with a large territory that involved a good bit of travel. Being new to the job and territory she had many late / overnight trips to visit the stores she was responsible for. Occasionally on the trips she would take the employees out for dinner and drinks. When she got back to the hotel that night she would video call and we would usually talk the rest of the night.
Fortunately, her corporate office was in our city so she was home most nights. After about a month at the new job, she started calling and telling me she was going to be going to get dinner and drinks with the other district managers that were in town from their territories. I really wasn’t thinking much about it at the time.