I went to Mexico City for some meetings last winter and tried out Bumble for the first time in a foreign city. I’m a fairly attractive, fit guy, but I’m also a little older than most in online dating apps in my early 40s. But I guess in a place like this it’s fine since I had scores of women in that little bar of matches across the top by the first evening.
As expected, only a fraction of them sent a first message. By the first evening I was involved in quite a few English and Spanish conversations. I was in town for a few days and my goals was of course to figure out who was in the “no hookups” category for real and who was just saying it to not be embarrassed when an old friend comes across their profile.
I soon had it narrowed to three attractive women who seemed like they were more, umm, interesting than the rest. With one of them the conversation quickly turned pretty kinky and I could tell that she was the most fun out of the group. Within a couple dozen messages I had learned that she was a very obedient girl behind closed doors and really wanted to please.